I am also a concerned parent who has spoken with both Bernadine (School District) over the summer (who was more than willing to come and meet with the parents and bring a rep from Worksafe BC and Pacific Environmental) and with Ms. Brine. My last conversation with Ms. Brine was that she was leaning towards not having a parent meeting - that she felt that there was no new information to provide to the parents - given that the information is up on the site.
While there may be information up on the website, this is not what the parents are asking for. We want to have a conversation/dialogue and have our questions answered. I consider myself to be a fairly intelligent woman, but having all this information up on a website is not the means for me to make sense of the issues and determine the safety for my children. Having a conversation and hearing directly from a Worksafe representative will make me feel more comfortable than what I have had access to at this point. Unfortunately given the lack of communication over the summer months, many parents are mistrustful of the process and decision-making that occurred and consider that the School District and the School Administration have not been fully transparent with us.
I do a lot of work with senior leaders in healthcare (Fraser Health being one of my clients). I have seen the positive impact of bringing stakeholders together to have conversation and surface issues as well as the negative impact where these steps have not been taken. In fact, from my experience, if the space is not created for these types of conversations, it fosters resentment, story-making and it goes underground, feeding antagonistic behaviours.
I would assert that creating the meeting for Peace Arch Elementary parents would do a great deal of good in terms of contributing to collaborative relationships between the parents and the Administration rather than setting it up to become potentially adversarial.
My recommendation is to have a facilitator who facilitates the process and therefore can manage the dynamics that could surface in the group. I would be happy to recommend two people that I know of who are skilled facilitators and reside in South Surrey.
I would strongly encourage you to proceed with an all parent meeting as Stacy MacDonald has requested in a previous email to all of you. Again I would be more than happy to provide contact information for facilitators for you. My contact information is below.
Sincerely,
Erica Groschler
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